Interesting! Some of these look really good; I'll have to check them out.

This bit did make me sporfle; Sherlock BBC Kink Meme (which really isn't a kinkmeme as much a fic-meme...just, if you are going by the SPN measure of kink. It's like taking a spoon to a nuclear bomb fight) because it's so true. As someone who has visited SPN's kink memes and then gone to other fandoms', I'm like "...but, um, where's the actual kink stuff?" I remember wandering into Merlin's kink meme after being bored...and being utterly surprised at the lack of SPN-level kink to be found.
SPN is for sure the exception, not the rule. :P