Haha, well in fairness, I only cal "gay!" easily when the men are on TV shows...in real life my "gaydar" kind of sucks. It doesn't help that I'm also attracted to snappy dressers, and (most) gay men tend to put more effort into their appearance then (most) hetero guys. :P

I'm working on a rec-post for this and the other Love and Slash posts on my journal, but, of course, as expected, I'm getting off on my own explanations too.

Awesome! I look forward to the pingback-bot comment when it's up ;)